吃
人
家
的
嘴
软
,
拿
人
家
的
手
短
c
h
ī
c
h
ī
r
é
n
r
é
n
j
i
ā
j
i
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d
e
d
e
z
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z
u
ǐ
r
u
ǎ
n
r
u
ǎ
n
,
,
n
á
n
á
r
é
n
r
é
n
j
i
ā
j
i
ā
d
e
d
e
s
h
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d
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n
Definitions
1. lit. the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, the hand that has received doesn't reach (idiom)
2. fig. one is partial to those from whom presents have been accepted
Components
吃人
chī rén
–
exploitative
家的
jiā de
–
(old) wife
嘴软
zuǐ ruǎn
–
soft-spoken
拿人
ná rén
–
making things awkward
手
shǒu
–
hand
短
duǎn
–
short